Hello, loyal reader. Once again, NovaGiovanni.com is back with real life problems plaguing our communities. One of the biggest problems is the male ego. Yes, I said it. Not just the male ego, but the male esteem. There are a lot of men out here who have the same self-esteem level as a Facebook bathroom model. If they were born female, they would most likely have their asses on sinks for a few “likes”. The low self-esteem having woman searches through their man’s phone and compares themselves to every woman in his past. Do you know what the low self-esteem having MAN does? He inquires about his woman’s past sexual partners and compares himself to them. That is the only reason a guy can be intimidated by a woman’s number of sexual partners in her past. I know this may confuse some of you, but let me break it down. The woman who is in regular relationships has regular sex without as many partners, but has more sex than the single woman. Therefore, a woman could have had 10 sexual partners in a year – she could have had sex with them twice and not even came CLOSE to the woman in a relationship. Let me share something about Nova Giovanni with you all… when I’m in a relationship, I have sex daily most times. In fact, I will have sex twice a day on a great day. So, lets say your lady was in a relationship with me for 6 months. That is roughly 180 days, and I can guarantee we have had sex at least 225 and a half times within those 6 months. Make it a whole year of a woman dealing with me and she has had her lovebox invaded by my persistent penis at least 550 times. Now, lets look at the single woman. This single woman slept with 10 men in a year irregularly. There was probably one man she had sex with once or twice a week regularly in all that time. Meaning she had an average of one sexual experience a week. There are 52 weeks in a year, meaning she had sex around 52 times compared to the woman in a relationship with me who has been sexed (very well) at least 550 times. Men lie, women lie, numbers don’t lie… Nova Knows…
I constantly hear and see grown ass men talking about a woman’s body count and the significance of her amount of bodies. I had a homeboy of mine tell me he wouldn’t date a woman if her body count was over “x amount.” Regardless of what that number and trust me, it wasn’t that high. Why should or would that matter? Especially if she accumulated these bodies over quite a few years. You’ll never know the exact number or how she got to the number she did. So stop spending so much time and putting so much stock into something so irrelevant. Truth be told, after the age of 25 every woman you date probably did some ho shit and/or went through a ho phase at some point. You maybe in denial about it but I most certainly am not. What should matter is how she treats you and has she grown as a woman.
Tell’em, Avant. Its time for men to be men and grow up. Stop worrying about who had the pussy before you and just be happy you are getting the pussy now. As long as her vagina is disease free and makes you cum, it passes all real nigga requirements. If you’re worried so much about who has had sex with your woman before you – perhaps you just feel like they sexed her better. If I sex a woman, I act as if I took her virginity. Ahhhh maaaan… men aren’t men any more. We’re on to something, brother Avant. Share more as I praise dance while reading this…
If the thought of your woman, whom you didn’t know til just a few months ago, has 20 bodies on her resume in roughly a 7 year period bothers you, then you’re worried about the wrong things. That’s damn near an average of 3 men a year. I know women who do those numbers in a month. With the way woman look for love, those 3 bodies in a year could’ve very well been boy friends. Why spend your time concerning yourself with who she used to be and things she used to do. Many of you niggas have lost good women because your friends have talked her down to you and you bought into the bullshit. If she makes you happy and shows she respects you and herself, keep her close. Don’t spend your time worrying about truths that you’ll never know the real truth about. Sometimes you have to take shit in stride and chalk it up to the past being the past. Ask yourself, “what if she knew my body count?” Think about how it would feel for her to judge you or leave you because of it. Shit sounds stupid, I know.
Listen, if that woman treats YOU like a King – she IS a Queen. Do your history, Queen Cleopatra was one of the biggest hoes EVER. But, she held down and improved the strategy of every man she aligned herself with – such as Julius Caesar and Mark Antony. Then again, most of you niggas can’t be held to the same standards as medieval rulers. A majority of you so-called men can’t even handle your business, but you want to tell a woman how she should handle her body. Fellas, here is the solution – handle your business, stay busy with where you want to go, and you won’t have time to worry about where your woman HAS been. If a woman I’m with has a sketchy past- I chalk it up to me not being in her life. Like Jesus, I saved her. Keep throwing her past in her face and don’t be surprised when you become a part of her past. Live now, right now. How can you possibly drive forward if your face stays in the rearview mirror? Nova Knows… Nova Knows…
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